As I get ready to start a new opportunity in a few weeks, I have found myslef looking at the lessons learned and the growth that I have expereinced over the last few years. It has been rewarding to see where I am today compared to where I was a few years ago.
I came across this quote from Steve Jobs that illustrates how I am feeling about this new opportunity. This quote is applicable in so many ways, and one of my goals is to live my life in this manner.
The question to think about over the weekend: Do you love what you do? For me this new opportunity will allow me to do what I love to do…hope you do as well 🙂
I was presented with a opportunity today and of course it has been on my mind all morning. As I was getting situated at work for the day I came across the quote below from Richard Branson
The lesson for me from this quote…Life is going to give you opportunities, and they have the potential to push and stretch you beyond what you feel you are capable of. But, if you never take these opportunities…you will never know what you are truly capable of.
What opportunities have you been offered lately? What would happen if you said YES to them?
It it going to be a great week…full of opportunities 🙂
This week I am studying the following principle: “Each one of us is a perfect, unique, energy force.”
We live in a world full of Judgement and comparison. It seems that a lot of us are not happy or content until we reach a certain income, look a certain way, or achieve a certain status. This principle allows us to let go of all the judgments and comparing and simple LIVE according to our definition of perfection. The quote below really drives this idea/principle home for me.
“Remembering our true state is perfect, regardless of what we think, say or do, releases self-condemnation and frees us up to really live. Great [People] love themselves and their clients unconditionally. We are never afraid to let our light shine, as we know that this is a beacon for others to embrace. Remember, the definition of perfection is unique, unto itself. Relax, You’re already perfect!” – Unconventional Wisdom
What are you thoughts on this topic?
The next principle/idea I have started studying this week is:
“Each moment describes who you are, and gives you the opportunity to decide if that’s who you want to be” – IPEC core principle
The thought that comes to mind for me when I think about this idea is the fact that just because I have done something once or acted in a certain way, doesn’t mean that I have to make the same decision or act in the same way the next time I am presented with a similar situation. I have the ability to choose who I want to be and how I want to respond in every situation. The thought below rings true to me as well.
“There is no such thing as finally “getting it right” for this idea traps us into thinking that there are goals to be met at the “end.” Life is a journey, a becoming, a growing, a process. We often set goals (e.g. finish school, to get married, to have a child, to earn a Ph.D, etc), and they are motivating factors; but to live in the moment, in present time, means not to measure success by the realization of that goal, but by the process, as it is in the process that we can decide our own measure of success. in fact, one might say that the most enlightened goal could be to enjoy the process of life.” – Unconventional Wisdom
Take a look at the quote below and let me know what comes up for you.
“If we treated our friends like we treat ourselves, we’d all go to jail” – Unknown
What thoughts or impressions come to mind?
My post on Monday was about how we cannot make a mistake. In that post we discussed the idea that we all make the best decision we can in each given moment. A “mistake” is the judgement we place on our choices, and by releasing these judgments, we can in turn learn from our choices instead of beating ourselves up over our “mistakes”
This quote confirms the inner battle that we sometimes struggle with. I have noticed that I beat myself up, judge myself for the choices I make, and have a inner battle with myself…that sometimes get ugly. No one knows the details of this battle but me, it is individual for me and for us all.
What would happen if we could release these judgments we put on ourselves, release the “mistakes” and treat ourselves like we want others to treat us?
- There are no “mistakes” only different varieties of ways to experience life and remember more of who we are. We make choices based on our past, our belief systems, our values, and perhaps even the collective consciousness that’s engrained in our DNA. We always choose what we believe is the best possible choice in any given situation. Instead of directing our energy toward the past by beating ourselves up over “mistakes,” why not ask, “What is the lesson? What can be learned from this experience?” – IPEC core principle
What are your thoughts about this idea/principle?
When I first heard this principle I don’t think I fully understood it. I still don’t think I completely understand it, but I am realizing more and more each day that there are really no mistakes…we simply choose what we feel is the best choice in any given moment. A mistake is the judgment we put on the choice we make.
Releasing the judgment is a very freeing feeling. Doing this allows me to focus on the lesson I can learn from my choices instead of beating myself up over the “mistake” I made
What would your life look like if you did the same?
This quote is such a powerful reminder of how our perspective create our experience with life, situations, relationships, work, and most everything else. What would happen if we truly changed our perspective when we were faced with challenges or stressful situations?
I had an opportunity to experience this change of perspective this week. I have experienced an increase in workload at my job over the last month. This increase has required more from me, and I will admit…I have found myself feeling a bit overwhelmed with all that I am being asked to do.
This perspective of being “overwhelmed” was challenged by my wife this week. We were talking over the phone after a particularly stressful client call I had just finished. In her wisdom, she asked me “Babe, what if you stopped feeling overwhelmed and started feeling grateful for all the clients you get to work with?” She may not have said those exact words, but that was what I heard.
This question stopped me dead in my tracks…and I was able to take a look at how my current perspective was holding me back. As I thanked my wife for her wisdom, I made a commitment to change my perspective on my current workload. This renewed perspective of feeling grateful for all the clients I get to work with totally changed the remainder of my week.
Could it really be that easy? Could a change in perspective really allow us to experience more from life?
From my perspective the answer is YES.
How about you?